Stop going to people who cannot support your growth.
“If someone isn’t making you stronger, they’re making you weaker.”
-Timothy Ferris
It is especially important when you are trying to improve yourself and your life.
Changing itself is already not easy- humans are wired for comfort, not happiness. And you, gathered enough courage to step out of your comfort zone, working so hard for your dreams, upgrading yourself in every aspect of life- while having people that constantly drag you down- is not fun.
In this post I will share with you 3 types of people you should remove from your life.
1. They try to bring you down whenever you go up.
This is the worst- these people don’t even have good intention towards you. They don’t want to see you successful, they don’t want to see you happy, no.
These bad vibes get upset when they hear your achievements. When you tell them you’ve achieved or are have merely just started certain things, they will get sad or even mad. They will always try to make you feel extra and to bring you down back to their level. Regardless of what their words are, the message is just “stop doing it, come back down“.
2. They don’t believe in your potential.
When you tell them your goals or your expectations to yourself, they may say something like “what makes you think that you can make it?”, or even laugh at you.
These people have really small minds. Being with them can only limit your imagination and hence achievements.
They do not understand that success comes from doing the right thing in the right way. They believe that you have to have certain innate magical power or whatever special background to do it.
These people don’t know how success work. They can never lead you to where you want to be (they don’t even believe you can be there…).
3. They don’t find you worthy of the things you desire.
When you stand firm to your boundaries, like not allowing certain people in your life, not accepting certain treatment, not taking certain offers, you can feel that they think, or even say to you, “how dare you think you deserve more?”
If they don’t find you deserve more, they won’t give you the more. Not the respect, not the love, nothing.
Being with them guarantees that you will never get what you want from them.
So why would you stay?
Start now!
These 3 types of negative energies would obstruct your growth.
I hoped you’ve already gathered ideas on who should be kicked out of your life along the read, and start to take action.
All the best!
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-Learning How to Live 2.0
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